by Lolo Sianipar
We’re all experienced that feeling sometimes in our life. Feeling like all things we did going to the wrong direction, feeling like what we have, precious things we treasured had taken away from us, feeling like beaten up by the world, feeling like everything goes wrong and don’t know where to start to fix it. Feel like people that closest to us have only negative perceptions and judging us. We feel like Midas but with opposite benefit, all things we touch crushed. We all had our times stand in those shoes quite many times already, WE ALL.
Tell you what dear friend, it’s OK. I mean it’s really OK to be a loser sometimes. It’s OK to feel that we have nothing at all to be proud of sometimes. It’s OK to feel things are just wrong, it’s OK to have a broken heart, it’s OK to feel tired and close to give up. it’s OK to back at one again. Doesn’t it shows that we are human, we’re fragile, we are sensitive, we have feelings? So, aren’t you proud to be a true human? Didn’t after being a loser took many men into their greatness in this history of human kind?
Now what you’re going to do with that kind of feelings, that what’s count. Are you going to let it beat you up until the only thing you think is how to end it once and for all? Are you going to spend your days and nights howling like a lonely dog? Are you going to whine about it, brag, angry, blame the unfair life and world you’re living in? Just remember, problems are many when it attack us until we feel like we’re a loser, therefore we need to solve it one by one, we have to win it back bit by bit. We just need to be more patient when we feel like a loser. Nothing else. And when we feel like we can do literally nothing to make things right right now, the least we can do is learn, take a lesson, grasp a meaning. No one in this world can change the way you feel but yourself, not even your Mom. So, after you being patient and took your lesson, you just believe that there are tenderloving invisible hands taking care of you everytime and everywhere. Those qualities will overcome your bad feelings then the rest will follow.
Really, it’s OK to feel LIKE a loser, what matter is what we’re going to do when we feel like one…
“I wish I had a chance to say this to that young man on the news who decided to end his life, jumped from 8 stores university building, just because his dad keeps angry at him for taking too long to graduate. Why people are so practical nowadays?”